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Meet my dear friend, Martha Heymans.

Martha is a relationship coach who works with individuals and couples, helping them to use their relationships as a tool for self-discovery.

What if every conflict in your life was actually just a miscommunication?

Martha believes that they are.

And she teaches that how we behave with others (and how their behavior affects us) contains valuable information we can use to grow into better, more understanding and more attractive versions of ourselves.

During the interview Martha shares:

  • A trick for getting others to like you more, without putting yourself down or resorting to people-pleasing…
  • A practice anyone can implement to get along better with others (even with people you don’t like)…
  • An important lesson your criticisms and judgments (that you have about other people) can teach you about yourself…
  • A powerful tool for dealing with social anxiety…
  • A journaling technique to start creating a better life for yourself…

Learn more about Martha Heymans and follow her on social media.

Martha Heymans is a Love & Relationship Coach who specializes in self-reflective work to improve relationships. She works with individuals and couples to help them better understand themselves and each other, increasing communication, conflict resolution skills and connection.

Be sure to follow Martha on Instagram @howwegetalong and check out her website,

Want to hear more great conversations like this one I had with Martha?

If you enjoyed this interview with Martha Heymans, you should also listen to my interviews with Annie Lalla, because Annie is the person who introduced us. In my first interview with Annie we talked about how to create epic love with your partner, and in my second interview with Annie where we talked about healing from parental wounds.

There are several other guests I met because of Annie, so be sure to listen to those interviews as well, if you haven’t already. I talked to Sacha Lalla about how to build friendships with other women. I talked to Jennifer Russell about how you can increase your personal power with everyone you encounter. I talked to CoCo McKenzie about practical steps you can take to build radical self-love. I talked to Jena LaFlame about power and sexual intimacy. And I talked to LiYana Silver about overcoming self-doubt.