Expert support to find your lesbian soulmate and end your loneliness and dating frustrations, once and for all...

Personal one-on-one coaching for LGBT females.

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I have a question for you…

Does it ever seem impossible to find the kind of women you really want to date?
Does it seem like when you finally actually find someone you’re excited about, they aren’t fully available or interested in having/developing/nurturing a serious relationship with you?
Have you ever been afraid you’re never going to find the love you long for?

If you answered YES to any of these questions, then first of all, you’re not alone, and second of all, it’s not your fault...

I was just like you…

In the past, my loneliness was a dark cloud that cast a shadow over everything else in my life, keeping me from truly enjoying my life or my accomplishments or time spent with my friends and family.

My heart ached for love.

I would often go for months on end without connecting with anyone I could really see myself wanting to date. And then, often when I finally DID find a woman I was excited about, she wouldn’t even give me a chance.

And then whenever it finally worked out and I started dating someone, I’d put her on a pedestal (that she didn’t even deserve) and I’d fall too hard, too fast.

The disappointment I’d feel when those crushes didn’t work out would only make my loneliness more intense.

The longer I went without finding a partner, the more intense the pain would grow…

All of this finally changed when a mentor of mine called me out one night and forced me to look closely at the negative spiral I was in.

He made me realize that the way I was thinking about and behaving around women was the reason for all my struggles with dating. And he showed me how I could get better results by thinking and behaving differently.

With practice I was able to change my thoughts (and mindsets) and change what I was doing in a way that turned everything around for me.

Where in the past my dating life was struggle and a source of pain and shame, now, even in the times between my relationships, I see being single as a pleasure and a privilege.

I had been feeling so bad about myself for so long, thinking there was something inherently wrong with me that turned women off.

And that’s the case for most of us.

99% of the time it’s not our personal characteristics that cause us to struggle with dating. When we struggle it’s because we’re thinking and behaving in sub-optimal ways.

As your coach, I will support you in understanding and removing what is suboptimal about your thoughts and behaviors, and we will uncover and undo whatever is blocking you from the thoughts and behaviors that result in the most opportunities for love and happiness

We begin by taking an overview of your life and identifying thoughts and patterns that need to shift.

Then I will help you establish clear, concrete, measurable steps that will enable the shift.

There is nothing you can’t shift. You are capable of so much more than you know or are currently creating.

The things we work on together will depend on you and your specific needs. There is no one-size-fits-all approach.

Everything we discuss is always 100% confidential.

My relationships with my clients are intimate, honest, and rewarding.

I am a certified coach, but my most important and extensive training is from my own experience knowing exactly what it’s like to search for love as a queer woman. I have first-hand understanding of what you’re going through.

I only work with people who are willing to themselves ask hard questions and who are willing to take action outside their comfort zones.

The fact that you’re even reading this in the first place means you know in your heart you are capable of taking your life to the next level.

I’m happy for you that you’re on your way, because the truth is you don’t have time to waste.

Expert support to find your lesbian soulmate and end your loneliness and dating frustrations, once and for all...

Personal one-on-one coaching for LGBT females.

I have a question for you…

If you answered YES to any of these questions, then first of all, you’re not alone, and second of all, it’s not your fault...

I was just like you…

In the past, my loneliness was a dark cloud that cast a shadow over everything else in my life, keeping me from truly enjoying my life or my accomplishments or time spent with my friends and family.

My heart ached for love.

I would often go for months on end without connecting with anyone I could really see myself wanting to date. And then, often when I finally DID find a woman I was excited about, she wouldn’t even give me a chance.

And then whenever it finally worked out and I started dating someone, I’d put her on a pedestal (that she didn’t even deserve) and I’d fall too hard, too fast.

The disappointment I’d feel when those crushes didn’t work out would only make my loneliness more intense.

The longer I went without finding a partner, the more intense the pain would grow…

All of this finally changed when a mentor of mine called me out one night and forced me to look closely at the negative spiral I was in.

He made me realize that the way I was thinking about and behaving around women was the reason for all my struggles with dating. And he showed me how I could get better results by thinking and behaving differently.

With practice I was able to change my thoughts (and mindsets) and change what I was doing in a way that turned everything around for me.

Where in the past my dating life was struggle and a source of pain and shame, now, even in the times between my relationships, I see being single as a pleasure and a privilege.

And that’s the case for most of us.

99% of the time it’s not our personal characteristics that cause us to struggle with dating. When we struggle it’s because we’re thinking and behaving in sub-optimal ways.

As your coach, I will support you in understanding and removing what is suboptimal about your thoughts and behaviors, and we will uncover and undo whatever is blocking you from the thoughts and behaviors that result in the most opportunities for love and happiness

We begin by taking an overview of your life and identifying thoughts and patterns that need to shift.

Then I will help you establish clear, concrete, measurable steps that will enable the shift.

There is nothing you can’t shift. You are capable of so much more than you know or are currently creating.

The things we work on together will depend on you and your specific needs. There is no one-size-fits-all approach.

Everything we discuss is always 100% confidential.

My relationships with my clients are intimate, honest, and rewarding.

I am a certified coach, but my most important and extensive training is from my own experience knowing exactly what it’s like to search for love as a queer woman. I have first-hand understanding of what you’re going through.

I only work with people who are willing to themselves ask hard questions and who are willing to take action outside their comfort zones.

The fact that you’re even reading this in the first place means you know in your heart you are capable of taking your life to the next level.

I’m happy for you that you’re on your way, because the truth is you don’t have time to waste.

If you want love in your life and you want it now, it just takes one call.

Schedule time to consult with me.

This is a big deal.

This is your life happiness.

I can help you in one call.

Is it worth it to you to spend a half hour investing in that?