Being single is painful.
We humans are wired to want to connect and love and be in a partnership.
And when we don’t have love in our lives, it’s sad and lonely and frustrating and it hurts.
Why are some of us single and alone, stuck in the frustrating world of lesbian dating, while other women have the love and partnership we long for? Why are they the lucky ones?
Human beings are creatures of habit. All of us are.
Physically, emotionally and mentally, we have habitual patterns in all realms of our existence. And mostly we are blind to these habitual patterns.
Some of us think we are adventurous and spontaneous and not at all habitual. But even those among us who constantly seek out new experiences – we still talk with the same voice and accent every time we have a conversation (habits of speech). And we still stand and walk with the same posture everywhere we go (habits of movement). And we still hold mostly the same beliefs, opinions and preferences (habits of thought and emotion). We are far more habitual than we realize.
Every day there are things we that we should do, that we are capable of doing and that we want to do, but for whatever reason, we don’t do them. Because we are creatures of habit. And that keeps us stuck.
Which is bad news for anyone who wants to end their loneliness and find a partner.
Because our habits make us continually do the same thing – even though
the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results. Click To TweetIt’s a lot simpler than most people think.
Wyatt Woodsmall, an expert in human behavior, likes to say that
Things get better by change, they don’t get better by chance. Click To TweetEasier said than done.
If we’re all creatures of habit, how can we make meaningful changes in life?
In order for things to change, our perspective has to change.
We have to start by looking at things from a different perspective.
In this video I walk you through the three most important perspectives we can use to analyze our lives. These perspectives can help us become aware of places where we are blind and habitual and stuck. Because awareness of our habits is the first step in freeing ourselves from them.
You need to understand something important about your soulmate.
Whoever she may be – your soulmate is somewhere on this planet, right now. She’s alive and breathing somewhere on earth.
And if she had your phone number, she’d call you right now. Because she’s going to think you’re so hot and adorable and amazing. And you’re going to make each other so happy.
But she doesn’t have your number yet. She can’t call you. She’s alone somewhere, and she’s just as frustrated as you are.
She’s missing you just as much as you miss her. This is a FACT.
Your soulmate, wherever she may be, is relying on you. She needs you to believe in her and not settle before you find each other. She needs you to keep growing into the woman you need to be to match her in a truly equal partnership.
She needs you to be strong enough to do whatever it takes to finally bring her into your life. Because otherwise she’ll be left alone. And that’s unacceptable.
She needs you to make a change.
Because the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results. Especially in the world of lesbian dating.
And “things get better by change, they don’t get better by chance.”
So watch this video so you can discover hidden opportunities for you to grow and change and alter your life in a way that might finally lead you and your soulmate to cross paths and find each other.
There’s nothing in this world more amazing than the experience of your love for each other, and I’m so excited for the two of you to meet.
I hope this video can help speed up the process for you.
Are you willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen?
If so, leave a comment below and write “YES.” And commit to making a change, because things get better by change, they don’t get better by chance.
Your soulmate is waiting, and she’s so worth it.
Watch this video NOW and get started.